There is only 1 way to be happy..
And that is
To decide to be happy no matter what
Many people actually don't want to be happy
They have lots of conditions to be happy
"I am going to be happy when I win that exam"
"I am going to be happy If I marry"
"I am going to be happy if i get that job"
"I am going to be happy if she treats me that way"
I am going to be happy if i change jobs"
If you decide to be happy based on conditions
It means that you really don't want to be happy
Subconsciously you actually like to suffer
Otherwise you would not have created that many conditions
Shit happens in this world
and we don't have any control over it
If you have thousand conditions on happiness
you will never enjoy your life
you will keep suffering
from now on
make this as the most challenging game you have ever played
be happy no matter what
the most important thing to understand when we deal with a difficult situation is this:
After something happened , you can't change it
It's already been CREATED
It's already HAPPENED
You can cry
you can curse
you can create violence
you can blame
it does not matter if you are right or not
none of the things you are going to do will change it
your unhappiness will not make it okay
next time if something you don't like happens to you
stop fighting with creation
stop fighting with god
stop saying things that don't matter like "this should have not happened"
cause it already happened
this will pass too